Dear Queenie,
My wife and I come from two different countries and cultures with two very different types of people’s names. The problem is she wants to give our children her type of names and I want to give them mine, especially because they are normal where we live.
Queenie, how do we decide?—Father-to-be
Dear Father-to-be,
Why not do both – one kind of first name and the other kind of middle name? Your children probably will end up using whichever names they prefer – possibly depending on where they are at any given time.