Dear Queenie,
My girlfriend and I were together for several years and even talking about getting married, before we broke up because I lost my job and wasn’t happy with having her support me. Now I have heard that she is going to get married, but she says she still wants to be “friends with benefits” with me.
Queenie, am I wrong to be disgusted by this?—Ex-boyfriend
Dear Ex-boyfriend,
I can understand how you feel about all this. Tell your ex-girlfriend and her fiance that you are happy to hear their good news and wish them well. Whether you stay “friends” with the two of them is up to them, but it would best be without “benefits”.
