Dear Queenie,
I let my boyfriend take some “bedroom” photos of me and then I found out he showed them to some of his friends. When I complained that the photos were supposed to be private between just the two of us he didn’t understand why I was so upset.
Queenie, what’s the matter with him? Why are men so stupid?—Embarrassed
Dear Embarrassed,
Many men just love to brag about their conquests and the photos were proof that he was not making it up.
As for men being so stupid, well, how smart was it to let him take those photos in the first place, and to let him keep charge of them in the second place? “Secrets” have a way of getting out as soon as more than one person knows them. I hope you have learned a lesson from all this.
Finally, if your boyfriend cannot or refuses to understand why you were so upset about what he did, you should seriously consider whether you want to continue a relationship with someone so indifferent to your feelings.
