Dear Queenie,
My wife is “good friends” with a man she has known for a long time. She says there was never anything romantic between them but the way the man talks about her is something different. Also, they hug each other a lot and kiss on the lips when they meet and say “goodbye” and they have “pet names” for each other.
I trust my wife, but I wish she would tell why they are so affectionate with each other.
Queenie, is she making a fool of me?—Doubtful husband
Dear Husband,
Have you asked your wife about any of the things that are raising your doubts? If so, did she give answers that satisfied you? If not, do so immediately and insist on going into detail. If necessary, have this discussion in the presence of a professional counsellor. Then you will know what to think.
