Dear Queenie,
I was in love with a boy and another girl took him, but she doesn’t do anything to him like hug or kiss him. I am doing that, but who is supposed to have him? We kiss each other, but she doesn’t and she wants him? And now, what should I do?
Plus, we got in a fight and now he is like hitting me for nothing and it hurts so badly because he hits hard, you know, and what should I do?
A lady asked me “if he is smart.” I said no, he stayed back 2 times, but he looks good. Who should I follow, the lady or smartness or just being beat up? I think with the lady, but if I ignore him he is going to keep on hitting.
Queenie, what should I do?—Don’t know what to do
Dear Don’t know what to do,
I can’t imagine why you would want a boy who is so “smart” he “stayed back 2 times” and who beats you up for no reason. Let the other girl have him!
If you are afraid he will beat you up if you refuse to have anything more to do with him, go to Safe Haven and/or the police for assistance and protection.
And in the future, don’t be so generous with your hugs and kisses. That excessive generosity is probably the reason this boy has so little respect for you.
