Dear Queenie,
The other day I got an e-mail from someone whose name I didn’t recognise that had attached a picture of my daughter in a very pornographic pose.
She broke up with her boyfriend recently and I suspect he is the one who sent it, though I can’t be certain.
Queenie, should I tell her about it? I don’t want to embarrass her.—Disturbed mother
Dear Disturbed mother,
YES, you should tell your daughter immediately, so she can take appropriate measures. There is no telling how many people this picture was sent to so far and once something like that gets out it is very difficult, if not impossible, to put a stop to it.
She may be embarrassed now, but think how much worse it will be if she finds out later on, after things have gone further – at a job interview, for example!