Dear Queenie,
A friend of mine has a boyfriend who never lets her answer a question. He always jumps in and answers for her before she has a chance to say anything even if he really doesn’t know anything about the subject and usually he first will ask, “Why do you ask?”
Queenie, what’s wrong here? And why does she let him get away with it?—Disgusted
Dear Disgusted,
Maybe she puts up with it because she loves him. Maybe she just does not notice, or if she does notice she does not care enough to make an issue of it.
However, this could be a symptom of a controlling or even abusive personality, so keep in close touch with your friend and make sure she knows you are there for her if she needs you.
