Dear Queenie,
I’m 20 years old. I would like to know if you can give me some advice. My life is between two guys that love me but there is one guy that I really love more than the next one.
He was with me when I was younger but I know we have grown and gone our own ways. Seven years later he’s back in my life, but now I’m with someone else. I really love this other one. We have been together for 7 months now and he’s starting to act very strange with me sometimes, but always finds a way to make up.
Queenie, I would like to know who you think I should be with, the one that came back in my life and that really loves me (because I can see that), or the one I’ve been with for 7 months that I really love that is acting strange these days.—Confused girl
Dear Confused girl,
Do you know why the guy you’re with is acting strange? Could it be because he knows or suspects how you feel about the other guy?
Talk things over with the guy you are with and try to reassure him that he is the one you really love. If he still acts strange, you might want to reconsider your relationship with him. It can be difficult to cope with a jealous partner, especially if he is not willing to try to control his jealousy.
He may need some help in the form of counselling, but if he is not willing to try I suggest you take a short break from the relationship until you both can sort out your feelings.
As for your old flame, it would not be fair to him to start seeing him again while you are involved with anyone else.
