Dear Queenie,
There’s a couple my husband and I get together with all the time. Recently when he was away on business I had dinner at a restaurant with the other husband while his wife was busy at some meeting or other.
When I mentioned it to my husband he got mad and said I had no business having a date with another man, especially one who is married to a friend. I tried to tell him it wasn’t a date, just dinner with a friend but he says it just doesn’t look right.
Queenie, did I really do something wrong?—Confused
Dear Confused,
No, you did not do anything wrong, but because it upset your husband you might not want to do it again.
I wonder, did the other man’s wife know about your dinner with her husband? And if so, how does she feel about it? And, how would you feel if your husband went out to dinner with her (just her, not her husband) while you were otherwise occupied
