Dear Queenie,
My husband and I do just great in the bedroom, but he also wants me to let him bathe (shower) with me. He says most people enjoy showering together and we should too.
Queenie, I prefer privacy in the bathroom. Is that so wrong? Should I give in and do what he wants?—Bathing beauty
Dear Beauty,
This is not a matter of right or wrong, but of whether or not you enjoy the experience. Some people enjoy the intimacy of bathing together and having someone help them scrub their hard-to-reach parts, some do not.
Why not give it a try? You might like it. If not, you do not have to do it again.