Dear Queenie,
My husband and I have been married for a year and are very happy. Our only problem is my 15-year-old sister.
She has a big crush on my husband and keeps pestering him with phone calls, text messages and e-mails. She even had the gall to tell him I was cheating on him, which he knows was a lie, and that if he ever wants a "real woman" he should call her.
I know my husband loves me and doesn't want anything to do with my kid sister, and I don't want to be mean to her, but I don't know how to make her stop what she is doing.
Queenie, what do you suggest?—Angry wife
Dear Angry wife,
It isn't up to you to make your sister stop. That is up to your husband. He should tell her to stop bothering him, because he already has a "real woman" – you.
Then he should block her calls and turn over her text messages and e-mails to her parents, because they should know what she is up to and take measures to get her under control before she does something really stupid.
It may seem mean, but in the long run it's for her own good.
