Dear Queenie,
Several years ago my older sister was killed in an auto accident caused by a drunk driver. Now my younger sister is actually dating the man who killed out older sister!
I only found out about it because my younger sister had to call me one night to come get her because the man she was with got into an accident and was arrested for driving drunk and causing the accident.
I am so angry with her for having anything to do with the man who killed our sister that I don’t even want to speak to her ever again.
Queenie, am I making too much of this?—
Dear Brother,
I do not think you are making too much of this, not so much because the man caused your older sister’s death, but because he clearly is an uncontrolled alcoholic who not only has cost you the life of one of your sisters, but is now endangering another one – not to mention everyone else he may imperil with his drunk driving.
However, please do not cut ties with your sister who is dating him, because she almost certainly will be needing your assistance and moral support in the future if she continues to associate with him.
