Dear Queenie,
A while ago I found out that my husband slept with his secretary while they were away on a business trip. He said it was because they had both been drinking after a long day of doing business and it didn’t mean anything and it never happened before and would never happen again.
However, they still work together and take business trips together.
Queenie, how can I trust him?—Unhappy wife
Dear Wife,
If he does not hide her text messages from you and you can hear their phone conversations you probably have a good idea whether anything is going on between them.
However, if he is keeping any of this “confidential” you have every reason to be suspicious. In that case you will have to decide what you want to do about it. Professional counselling would probably help you deal with all this.
