Dear Queenie,
My friend and I were out and this guy I don’t know came up and started talking to my friend. They were laughing and smiling, so I figured maybe they were “an item” and she never told me about him. Seeing they were talking I just left and went on talking to another guy.
I later found out the first guy was interested in me. Now let me tell you, he is a cute guy and I’m interested in him, but he thinks I like the other guy, which I don’t. I think I blew a good thing! Every day I kick myself for not being quicker at realizing he could have been a good catch.
Queenie, help! I really want your advice, guide me, please. Can you suggest ways of mending this situation? How do I get the message to the cutie that I want to know him?—QT2
Dear QT2,
Do you know anyone who also knows this guy? If so, maybe they can drop him a hint that you are interested.
Do you know where he works, lives or hangs out? Do you know his phone number? Maybe you could make an excuse to drop by or call him and have a casual chat.
But don’t push too hard. Once you have casually let him know that you are available and interested, the next move is up to him.
