Dear Queenie,
I am a young girl. I have a big problem. Yesterday my boyfriend and I were having sex without a condom and he break in me. For me it’s going to cause a lot of problems with my parents if they have to find out that I am plug!
How should I know if I am plug? That’s when I get my period. This is the first time it’s happening to me. What should I do? I don’t want to tell my parents anything or else they will flip. You know how parents are.
Please, Queenie, help me out as soon as possible. I need your information if you can help me out!—Problem child
Dear Problem child,
I suggest you stop having sex with your boyfriend, with or without a condom, and start concentrating on your schoolwork. Your letter was nearly incomprehensible and I can only hope I have interpreted your meaning correctly.
I hope you have learned a lesson about having unprotected sex. Being “plug” is the least of your worries. You also should be concerned about having caught an STD, possibly even HIV.
As for your parents, you will have to tell them sooner or later, especially if you are pregnant or have caught an STD. You should have thought about their feelings before you started doing something you knew they would disapprove of. That is another reason for you to stop what you have been doing and start doing what you should.
