Need some wooing

Dear Queenie,

  My husband helps me around the house and with the children without being asked, but when it comes to sex he always waits for me to make the first move. I know he wants sex and he finds me attractive, but he always expects me to start things going.

  Queenie, what is wrong with him?—Need some wooing


Dear Need,

  Perhaps your husband is afraid of being turned down if he approaches you when you are not in the mood for sex.

  Whatever the reason for his behaviour, I suggest professional counselling for both of you, preferably the two of you together, to help you understand each other’s preferences and needs.