My boyfriend is good to me but he doesn’t care about my grandchildren. He doesn’t talk to them or play with them when they come to visit me. He is good with them in public and he is good with other people’s kids, but he says he wants peace and quiet in the house. He has 2 children of his own and he doesn’t care if he only hears from them once or twice a year. No one comes to our house to visit and he doesn’t care about that either.
Queenie, should I stay with him?—Lonely girlfriend
Make a list of all the things about your boyfriend that you love and another list of all the things about your boyfriend that bother you. When you compare the two lists you will have the answer to your question.