His wife

Dear Queenie,

  My husband says he loves me and doesn’t love any other woman, but he has cheated on me a couple of times that I know of and probably more than that.

  He doesn’t deny it, he claims that a man needs lots of sex with different women to be really satisfied.

  Queenie, is that true? And what should I do?—His wife


Dear Wife,

  First, if you stay with this man, get tested regularly for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).

  Second, see a marriage counsellor to help you decide whether you are willing to stay in this non-monogamous marriage, and to figure out how to cope with whatever you decide.