Dear Queenie,
A woman I was friends with since high school started sending sexy text messages to my husband. When I found out I cut off our friendship right then and there.
My husband says it didn’t really mean anything, they were just joking around, and I am being too hard on her.
Queenie, do you agree with him?—Angry wife
Dear Wife,
Maybe they were just joking around and your husband was enjoying it – as a joke – just a little too much. Perhaps you should have had a frank talk with your friend and asked her to quit that kind of joking around with your husband. Maybe it is still not too late to do so. It depends on just how close your friendship with her was and how much you regret losing it. And, on whether the “joking around” has stopped.
