Dear Queenie,

My girlfriend and I have been going together for a couple of years now. We are really close, we share a lot of interests and have the same ambitions for the future and we're basically compatible, so I asked her to marry me, but she said no because she said she's not in love with me.

She says she loves me like family, but she's not "in love" with me, because there's no "excitement" when we're together.

Queenie, is she right?—Confused

Dear Queenie,

A while ago I bought myself a house and since then my boyfriend started staying over a lot, in fact he’s practically living here. He still has his own place, but he stopped paying his water and electricity bills so they turned them off and he’s saving a lot of money.

He comes and goes when he pleases and although he buys his own beer and sometimes a few groceries, mostly I do all the shopping and the housework which he doesn’t help with.

Queenie, how do I tell him I expect him to pitch in without spoiling our relationship?—Exasperated

Dear Queenie,

There’s this girl I like but I don’t know if she is interested in me. Her birthday is coming up and I thought I’d get her a gift and then ask her for a date, but I’m wondering if I should sign a card with the gift or just send it without any card at all and then tell her later that it was from me. Queenie, what do you advise?—Shy guy

Dear Queenie,

My teenage daughter argues with me about everything. If I said the sky is blue she would argue about what shade of blue, or that it was too cloudy to say that or whatever.

One day I asked her to pick up some cake mix at the supermarket and she gave me a big argument about why I would want to bake a cake when I could just buy one from the bakery department (and I never did get the cake mix).

Queenie, why does she have to be so disagreeable?—Fed up