Dear Queenie,
I want to have children and my fiancé is not against it but I’m not sure I can count on him for help when the time comes. He’s good about things like feeding the cat and changing the litter box, but he’s lazy about things like doing dishes and he likes to play video games.
Queenie, do you think I can count on him to do his share or should I just forget about having children?—Worried fiancée
Dear Worried,
From what you say, your fiancé is already doing his share, and is willing to take on dirty jobs (the litter box). The fact that he does not share your ideas as to what jobs are important (cleaning the litter box is not important too?) does not mean he is not doing anything at all, and the fact that he likes to relax with video games, which apparently you do not find entertaining, does not mean he is lazy. Relax a little.
