Dear Queenie,
A friend of mine got an anonymous letter in her mail that said all sorts of mean things. She thought it was from me and got mad at me for it, but I promise you, I didn’t send the letter. I only found out about it from another friend of both of us.
Queenie, now she won’t even talk to me so how can I convince her that it wasn’t me that sent the letter?—Unjustly accused
Dear Unjustly accused,
You could write her a letter explaining that you did not sent the offensive one, or you could ask that same mutual friend to tell her so, However, there is no guarantee she will believe your disclaimers and if she chooses to stay angry, I am sorry but there is nothing else you can do.