Dear Queenie,
My wife and I moved far away from where our families live and now when we go back there to visit we end up arguing about how much time to spend with each of our families because she has a big family and mine is not so big.
Queenie, should we spend half our time with each family or should the time we spend be divided up according to how many people we want to see?—Undecided husband
Dear Husband,
Why not arrange to have two big family get-togethers – one for all of your wife’s family and one for all of yours. Then, if you want to visit any (or all) of them individually, you can visit your relatives while your wife visits with hers.
