Dear Queenie,
My friend and I are not really on good terms. We use to hang and chill together, but couple of things happened which I truly apologized for. Now she has no time for me and I don’t really see why.
I have a feeling she is trying to get a boyfriend (I don’t know for sure) and I just feel left out because I don’t have a boyfriend. So we don’t hang out anymore, we hardly talk and she doesn’t call. If I call, the conversation is forced.
I don’t know what I did wrong; she doesn’t say anything, but I really miss her. She should not dump her once close friend because she has interest in guys now, right? Even though I have new friends, I still feel sad.
Queenie, what would you advise me?—She took her “love” away
Dear She took,
Sometimes saying you’re sorry just isn’t enough. Apparently your apology was not sufficient to mend your friend’s hurt feelings. Try to talk this over with her to find out why she is still angry and what else, if anything, you can do to make amends.
If you are lucky, and patient, perhaps time will heal her emotional wounds. If not, I hope you have learned a lesson.
I would advise you to be more tactful and considerate in the future.
