Dear Queenie,
After a family get-together with our children and grandchildren we noticed that some money was missing from my husband’s wallet that was sitting on the dresser in our bedroom.
No one was paying any attention, so anyone could have gone in there and taken the money.
Queenie, should we mention this to anyone or just let it go?—Ripped off
Dear Ripped,
Unless you want this to become an issue with your family every time you see any of them, let it go. But from now on make sure to lock up your money and any other valuables that could easily be taken. Lock the rooms they are in, if necessary. And if anyone asks about the security measures you have taken, tell them all why, without accusing anyone in particular. The culprits will (hopefully) get the message.