Dear Queenie,
Is your son-in-law still part of your family after his wife (our daughter) dies? Should we still try to stay close with him even if he starts dating again?
Queenie, what do you say?—Grieving parents
Dear Parents,
It depends on how close you were with him while he was married to your daughter and, of course, how he feels about the relationship. If you were close with him while your daughter was alive keep yourselves available, but leave it up to him.