Dear Queenie,
I have a problem. I can’t come to a sexual climax unless my partner puts his hands around my neck and starts to choke me. It’s only for a few seconds, and I never black out or anything, but it’s definitely scary to a lot of guys.
Have you ever heard of this sort of thing before?
Queenie, do I need professional help?—For the thrill
Dear For the thrill,
Yes, I have heard of this sort of thing, but I certainly don’t recommend it.
I also don’t recommend having sex with “a lot of guys.” Sooner or later you’re going to meet up with one who doesn’t stop choking you until you black out and Heaven only knows what he might do to you while you’re unconscious.
I suggest you find other, less dangerous way to get your thrills.
As to whether you need professional help, only you can be the judge of that. However, the fact that you think you might suggests that it would be a good idea to try, if only by getting a professional opinion in the matter.
