Dear Queenie,
My wife is just wonderful, but sometimes she annoys me and I get mad and say mean things to her. Also, I would like to move back to where we came from, but she likes it where we are now.
I love her, but I think being married is making both of us unhappy, but she doesn’t agree.
Queenie, should we split up?—Feeling trapped
Dear Feeling trapped,
I suggest a trial separation, to give both of you a chance to figure out whether you will be happier together or apart. And professional counselling, separately and together, would help both of you sort out your feelings about each other and your marriage. I wish you good luck.
