Fed-up wife

Dear Queenie,

  My husband told me once that he sometimes dreamed about having sex with two women at the same time – a “three-way” with me and some other woman, but I told him to forget about it, it was never going to happen. All the same, he still mentions it once in a while.

  Queenie, how can I get him to forget this idea once and for all?—Fed-up wife

Dear Wife,

  I doubt there is anything you can say to end your husband’s fantasies, but as long as it is only a fantasy I do not think you need to let it bother you too much.

  But to give him an idea how it makes you feel, you might ask him how he would feel if he thought you were also fantasising about a “three-way” – with him and another man.