Dear Queenie,
A long time ago some friends and I started getting together regularly for lunch. Since then some other women also have joined the group and recently some of the newcomers suggested we meet at a different place and at a different time that they find more convenient.
The other women in the group don’t seem to care about the change, but I don’t like that place and the time is not convenient for me.
Queenie, doesn’t the fact that I am one of the original members of the group count for anything?—Fed up
Dear Fed up,
You may be one of the original members, but the group does not belong to you. Majority rules in a case like this. You can go along with the others, or leave the group, your choice.
