Dear Queenie,
My ex-husband and I got divorced years ago because he cheated on me and we hadn’t seen each other since then, but recently we met up again at a friend’s wedding and learned that neither of us has remarried or even had a serious relationship in all those years and we still have feelings for each other.
Queenie, what do you think? Should I take a chance on getting back together with him?—Ex-wife in love
Dear Ex-wife,
That depends on why your ex-husband cheated on you the first time around. If it was because something was lacking in your marriage that your ex looked for elsewhere, and if you both are willing to work this problem out with the help of a professional marriage counsellor, there is a fair chance that remarrying your ex will work out well.
However, if he is simply unable or unwilling to honour his marriage vows, my answer is “NO.”
