Dear Queenie,
I was dating a girl for a while and then we broke up. The problem is she talks about everything online and since we broke up she is saying nasty – untrue – things about me for everyone to see.
Queenie, is there any way I can get her to stop or get what she says deleted?—Ex-boyfriend
Dear Ex-boyfriend,
Once something gets into cyberspace it is almost impossible to be sure it has been deleted completely, if at all. However, what this girl says about you tells people as much, or more, about her as about you. It is too bad cyber-yakkers do not put their brains in gear before they start typing.