My husband seems to have lost his mind. He keeps sleeping with a young lady working for him who is young enough to be his kid. He has now abandoned our family to live with her after I found out, but doesn’t want a divorce.
Queenie, what’s your advice on that?—Betrayed wife
Dear Betrayed wife,
My advice is: Never mind what your husband wants, make up your mind what you want and go after it.
Professional counselling would help you decide what you want, and if it is a divorce, a good lawyer would help you go after it.