Angry wife

Dear Queenie,

  My husband has a relationship with a woman he works with. She wrote him letters about how much she missed him when we went away on vacation and couldn’t wait to see him again.

  My husband says he enjoys their conversations and he admits that he has kissed her a couple of times, but he says it’s not cheating because they never had sex.

  Queenie, I say this is an affair even if they don’t have sex. My husband says it’s not cheating if there is no sex. What do you say?—Angry wife

Dear Wife,

  An emotional affair can be just as damaging to a marriage as a physical one. Even if he has not had sex with this other woman, your husband has not been faithful to you.