I thought my girlfriend who lives with me might be cheating on me, but when I tried to talk to her about it she got mad at me for being so suspicious, so I “accidentally” left my cell phone turned on on recording one morning when I went to work and sure enough, as soon as I was gone she called this other man and from all what she said I know she is having sex with him, so now I have proof she is cheating on me.
I’m not proud of what I did and I know she’ll be mad at me, but now I know I was right.
Queenie, what do I do next?—Angry boyfriend
Dear Angry boyfriend,
Your girlfriend will not stop cheating, and will continue to blame you for being suspicious – and for getting proof of your suspicions. Show her the proof, tell her it is over between you, give her a deadline for moving out and do not let her talk you out of it.