Dear Queenie,
A long time ago there was a woman I used to pay to have sex with. Recently this woman got a job at the place where I work. We get along alright but it’s difficult when we see each other alone somewhere, like in an elevator or an otherwise empty hallway.
Queenie, should I find a way to let her know I have never said anything to anyone about what we used to do?—Worried
Dear Worried,
Just leave the past in the past. If she is worried about what you might say about her, eventually she will understand that you have not talked about your past with her and will not do so, and she will stop worrying.