The other woman

Dear Queenie,

  I went out with my cousin and her boyfriend and a friend of his and I really liked the friend, but it turned out he already had a girlfriend and I don’t like cheaters.

  Queenie, how do I start feeling better about all this?—The other woman


Dear Other woman,

  Keep reminding yourself how much you do not like cheaters and do not respond if this guy tries to get in touch with you. And tell your cousin you do not want to see this guy again.