My husband’s first wife died long before we met. Their son is married to a woman who is the problem I want your advice about. She is very fat and her clothes are too tight, so she bulges out of them and you can see a lot more of her than she should be showing, but she claims it is the style nowadays.
Queenie, should I say something to her about this?—Offended step-mother-in-law
No, that is up to the girl’s parents and you should stay out of it. If you want to take her to a place that has a dress code you should tell her what that code is before you take her there, but otherwise do not say anything.