Mother of the bride-to-be

Dear Queenie,

  My daughter got divorced after being married only a couple of years because of some serious matters that she found out her husband had lied to her about.

  While they were separated and the divorce was going on she started dating another man and now that the divorce is final they are planning to get married.

  Queenie, what kind of wedding do you think would be proper?—Mother of the bride-to-be


Dear Mother,

  Under the circumstances, I would suggest a small, even a private ceremony.

  However, I would also suggest that your daughter not rush into another marriage so quickly, considering how her first one turned out, and that she might consider professional counselling before getting married again.