Dear Queenie,
When I was little my father would make out with my mother while I was watching, watch porn while I could see it, walk into my room without knocking while I was getting dressed or undressed, and tell dirty jokes where I could hear him. After I got married he even asked my husband questions about how our wedding night went.
Queenie, was I sexually abused?—Just wondering
Dear Just wondering,
I would say yes, that was a form of mental and emotional sexual abuse. If you feel you need help to deal with the aftereffects, I (as usual) recommend professional counselling.
