Fashion Etty Ket

Dear Queenie,

  When we get dressed up to go out, is it stylish or vulgar for my husband to wear a tie that matches the color of my dress?—Fashion Etty Ket

Dear Etty Ket,

  Some people think it is charming and others think it is tasteless. There is no rule of etiquette about this and it is a minor matter. Do what pleases you and do not worry about what others will think.