Dear Queenie,
When I looked at my boyfriend’s cell phone I found out that he had been cheating on me even though he had asked me to marry him and I thought I was the only woman in his life.
Queenie, I’m going to stop seeing him, but should I tell him why and how I found out about it?—Disgusted girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
Just break up with him without giving any reason, unless he asks why you are doing it, in which case tell him and expect him to try to make you feel guilty for snooping, but do not let him change your mind. And be glad you found out now, and not after you had made a formal commitment to him.