Dear Queenie,
My older sister has a habit of making fun of my clothes and hair styles when I go to visit her. She says they are cheap and ugly.
Queenie, this really makes me feel bad. Should I just stop going to see her?—Annoyed kid sister
Dear Kid Sister,
Have you told your sister how you feel about the things she says? She may not realise how bad she makes you feel.
If talking to her about it helps, all well and good. If not, then yes, try to limit the amount of time you spend with her.
