Dear Queenie,
I got married 20 years ago when I was still a teenager and now my children are in high school and college and I would like to do some of the things I never had a chance to do when I was their age.
Queenie, is that wrong?—All grown up now and growing old
Dear Grown-up,
If what you want to do is have some fun, and your husband is not interested, you could still go out with some of your women friends.
You could also join a women’s sports club or a book club.
If you did not finish high school, you might consider working to get your GED (general education diploma). Doing that would be very interesting in itself, and would provide interesting opportunities.
