My best friend from when we were kids still dresses like women did when we were kids even though styles have changed a lot since then. She got divorced a while ago and wants to start dating again.
Queenie, how do I tell her to get more up-to-date if she wants to meet a really good man?—Style-conscious friend
Do not criticise the way your friend dresses. Wait a while, and then go shopping with her. You can make gentle suggestions as to what would look good on her, but do not make an issue of it.