Dear Queenie,

  My hair is long, almost down to my waist, and I like it that way, but some people I know keep telling me I should cut it short and donate the cut-off hair to one of those charities that make wigs or hair-pieces for people who have lost their hair from cancer.

  I donate money to these charities, but I don’t want to cut my hair.

  Queenie, am I being selfish like they keep telling me?—Rapunzel

Dear Rapunzel,

  Not at all. Just tell these people, “I support these charities in other ways,” and change the subject.