Angry wife

Dear Queenie,

  My husband had an affair with an old girlfriend from before we got married. When I found out he ended the affair and I forgave him, but he kept checking her out on Facebook, but she blocked him. He doesn’t know I know about that.

  Queenie, should I talk to him about this?—Angry wife


Dear Wife,

  The other woman seems to be trying to end the affair once and for all. That is your husband’s problem; do not let it become yours.

  Insist that he go with you for professional marriage counselling. You both need to understand why he had an affair before both of you can get over it.