Dear Editor,
I had the pleasure to be in church on Sunday last and for the first time was made to understand the importance of the "dash" between the dates of birth and death (20/8/50 - 20/8/2018). The emphasis should be put on the dash (-) between the dates, because that dash represents our lifetime, the time between those two dates. The sermon was about what did you do and intend to do about that dash?
I believe we are a contentious people and that there are good people who occasionally do bad things. Therefore, with the focus on the future of our youth, my question is what do we intend to do about that "dash"? If there is validity to the proverb "Constant dropping breaks a stone", can I conclude that, if one is using the cell phone and looking at TV endlessly, the line between reality and fiction becomes blurry and that the distinction between crime on the TV and crime in reality will diminish?
Will not the result of this kind of behaviour manifest itself all over the world? We say prayers for our youth asking for them to grow in grace, for help to develop their skills for the honour and glory of God. We ask to give them a zeal for learning, for them to follow wise counsel and good leadership. We ask for them keep inspiring company so that they may take up their place in life and be a blessing to the communities in which they live.
But yes, a big but, faith without works people, yes, faith without works will get us nowhere. So, we have to make sure they adhere to their tasks and responsibilities. Instil accountability in them. It all goes back to Proverbs 22:6. And what is very important is our language. Our language must also play a role. Avoid curse words while correcting or chastising. Curse words distort what you want to say (flies, honey, vinegar).
Being stern does not necessarily mean one has to be mad. Explain the reason for the punishment. Never remain mad and try to avoid being repetitious. All of this can be a positive contribution to that "dash". Take a peek at Luke 2:41-51. I was about to send this letter when something told me check to see what's in today's paper first. I read Joslyn Morton's letter to you and I am obliged to urge everyone, and especially parents to go to the opinion page of The Daily Herald of Monday, August 20, and do like I will do.
Clip it out and laminate it. It reminds me of what was impressed upon me to combat following other children (what has become peer pressure): "It is not a problem to be different."
Russell A. Simmons
