Dear Queenie,

  When my husband and I took a long flight to go on vacation he spent the whole flight chatting with a woman next to us and didn’t pay any attention to me. Usually he just sleeps on a flight, but not this time.

  Queenie, how do I get over being annoyed by this?—Angry wife


Dear Wife,

  He might have spent as much time chatting with a man, but even if he was flirting with the woman, it is not likely that they will ever see each other again. And it could be that the woman was wishing he would just shut up and let her take a nap!

  What your husband did was rude to you, but dwelling on the insult will only make you angrier. As long as your husband does not make a habit of flirting with other women, calm down and let it go.