Dear Queenie,

  My husband doesn’t like any of the clothes I wear because he thinks they make other men look at me too much. It’s not like I wear anything sexy, he just doesn’t like anything I wear.

  Queenie, how can I get him to lighten up?—Dressing down


Dear Dressing down,

  It is not really the clothes you wear that your husband does not like, it is the fact that other men find you attractive to look at. I recommend professional counselling for both of you, separately or together – for him to learn to cope with his insecurity and jealousy, and for you to learn to cope with his attitude and behaviour.